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Dear Quarantine…don’t go

I loved Covid. Not the actual covid but the feelings and atmosphere that it brought to my life. My prayers are always with those that lost a loved one during covid so I don’t want to forget the lives lost but I also want to acknowledge the parts of quarantine that I want to keep forever. Dear Quarantine….please don’t go.

Dear quarantine…don’t go

You have taught me that less is more. I don’t need all the jeans I just need all the tops to go with 5 pairs of jeans.

You have taught me the power of laziness. I no longer want to grocery shop and I haven’t seen the inside of a Walmart in months.

I have learned that I love sweats. I thought at one point that I wanted to dress up more and be different but nope….I realize that sweats are beautiful and it’s time to embrace that fully

I love my personal space. I have space in my closet, my car (which is in my garage and I escape to it all the time to eat, read, and hide from the kids), and in my bedroom which I didn’t get to see a lot of. You know how you always sleep in the bedroom but don’t really enjoy the other parts like the recliner that I had to learn how to work because I never used it.

The schedule. Look I don’t know about you but being able to stay in bed and not have to rush and get kids to school or not having to clock in at a certain time was beautiful. My job allowed us to come in later and I was loving the no birthday parties and stuff to do on the weekends. My weekends were empty and I loved it.

You also taught me how to cook other things besides the norm. I enjoyed introducing a new dish every Monday around here and now…I haven’t cooked anything new in a while because things are getting back to normal.

I love the masks. It helped me remain even more anonymous. Being incognito to nosy neighbors, school folks, and others made me feel special. No one noticed me and I could wear the same outfit twice lol. I also loved the masks because not one of us got a cold over the winter and allergies were kept at bay. Oh, how I loved that I didn’t have to take any allergy meds.

No pressure. I loved that I didn’t have to do anything because there was nothing to do or nothing to demand my time like dance. Dance did pick back up towards the end of covid but last year I was free. I also didn’t have to commit to any meetings and I didn’t have to see people in person which I will always love because I’m an introvert

The gratefulness. I loved this the most. I was grateful that no harm came to any of my family members or friends. I was happy that we had food to eat and my money didn’t look funny. I was truly grateful for this and I gotta take a second to have a praise break.

I want to keep all of the above as we enter back into life. It’s still scary out there now that businesses aren’t requiring masks. I mean they want you to have an honor system but really who is doing that. I recently went to Savannah and no one had on masks. I felt like the oddball out there. I want to keep my same routine but know that life has to get back to some type of normal….whatever that is. My goal is to continue to have pieces of the above as much as I can. Take some things off my plate, say no to more events, cook quicker foods, buy less, etc. I also plan on being that introvert with her masks on for as long as needed.

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What did you learn during the quarantine? What parts of it do you want to keep or let go of?

 

 

 

 

 

17 Comments

  • Lowanda J
    June 24, 2021 at 10:01 am

    I learned that being still was nice. I practiced Breathework and beginner yoga and now everything has changed outside. I am not happy about everyone just letting it all go with the wind. I still wear my mask because I don’t trust these people. I still keep my distance and scowl at those who get to close. You can’t be too safe.

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  • Brianne
    June 24, 2021 at 6:29 pm

    I really want to keep having zoom meetings and not having to go in for them. I want to keep that so bad!

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  • Amber Myers
    June 24, 2021 at 6:58 pm

    I learned that I don’t mind being home. But I’m okay with life returning to normal. Though I do wish the 6 feet apart would remain. I don’t need people up in my space.

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  • Tammy
    June 24, 2021 at 8:26 pm

    I didn’t like any of it, even though it wasn’t much different than my life before. Since I worked from home, I was used to being home. I am ready for all masks to be gone. I missed hugs, kisses, and seeing people’s lovely smiles. It was so impersonal.

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  • Richelle Escat
    June 25, 2021 at 2:28 am

    I get your points. There are lots of things the quarantine taught us, living a simple life in general.

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  • Scarlett Brooklyn
    June 25, 2021 at 5:49 am

    Trying out different foods is one of the things I also loved about the quarantine, it’s just that maybe people got too bored that they started being creative food and it’s really a great outcome.

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  • MELANIE EDJOURIAN
    June 25, 2021 at 12:14 pm

    I think that you have a point there. By having gone through lockdown we have learnt many useful things. I did learn how to make a few new dishes and perfect my lemon drizzle cake x

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  • Gervin Khan
    June 25, 2021 at 12:55 pm

    I really enjoy being inside of my house. Loving myself and spending time with my family is one of the things that this quarantine taught me.

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  • Kathy
    June 25, 2021 at 2:31 pm

    I’ve learned a lot of these as well. I hadn’t been sick in over a year since wearing the masks. I actually enjoyed that part a lot. It was nice not getting sick at all.

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  • Melissa Cushing
    June 25, 2021 at 8:56 pm

    I am with you…. I will be doing many things differently as there are many things that I enjoy now that I did not do before……. lots more online ordering, walking and hiking and more ๐Ÿ˜‰ Thank you for the post and will be back!

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  • Ben
    June 25, 2021 at 11:25 pm

    Honestly, nothing really changed for me. I worked at home before the pandemic hit, and I’ve always been a homebody. That means that now that everything’s back open, I can still do all my work at home in my office wearing PJs all day long.

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  • Tara Pittman
    June 26, 2021 at 12:39 am

    My husband has to return to the office next week. So he has similar feelings.

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  • Shannon Graham
    June 26, 2021 at 12:44 am

    LOL I laugh because this is why you and I get along so well. I, too, have embraced my sweats and personal space.

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  • Heather
    June 26, 2021 at 1:14 am

    I definitely think that they last year and a half taught us a lot. I hope people don’t forget these things and don’t just rush back to life as it used to be.

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  • Wren LaPorte
    June 26, 2021 at 6:02 pm

    I have to agree with this mindset. I think it put a lot of things into perspective and taught us what was really important.

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  • Swathi
    June 27, 2021 at 6:19 am

    Yes this lockdown and quarantine taught of lot things. Good things. still continuing. You wrote it correctly it.

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  • Lyanna Soria
    June 28, 2021 at 10:51 am

    As an introvert myself there were things I would love to not let go such as going to work online or even social distancing with masks and all that. We are quite similar and definitely learned a lot during quarantine.

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