An associate is someone who is not my friend whom I talk to once every 2-6 months. I keep them around because I have either A. known them a while or B. they have done something for me that none of my so called friends have done and its hard to just part ways. For instance this particular person is a cool person but she is ditzy as hell. Whenever we get on the phone it’s like prolonged silence and I hate talking to her but when my mom died she was the only person who stuck by me so I feel obligated to keep her around.
Me: *looking at # aww damn her, I guess I can answer it have not spoken to her in a while* Hello
Associate: Hey girl how are you I have not spoken to you since Mothers Day. How are you and the family?
Me: Good, how are you
Associate: oh you know same ole same ole. I am coming to Atlanta in December I need to come to your house and see how you are living
Me: Yeah maybe we can meet up at a restaurant or something I stay so busy
Associate: Ok that’s cool what you doing that keeps you busy
Me: Taking care of the home, owning a business, and other stuff
Associate: what other stuff you can tell me we are best friends
Me: *sigh* no I can’t tell you. It’s something I am working on and I don’t want everyone to know
Associate: Oh ok you always up to something. Are you dating now? When will you start dating?
Me: I gotta go my daughter is crying call me when you get into town hopefully we can meet up
Associate: *she laughs and it sounds like he he like literally he he* We gotta catch up
Me: yep we sure do. Ok I really gotta go but call me
When my mom died and husband died she flew in from another state to come to their funeral she was the only person to do that. She is also nosy as hell and one thing she does is tell everyone my business and I don’t like that shat. If I tell her I might as well put a billboard up around the neighborhood. Maybe I should just cut all ties but I don’t want to hurt her feelings because every big event in my life she is always there for me but I just can’t stand her as a person.
My Links for the week
I don’t like Asparagus but I might have to try this one with bacon
I didn’t know a bar of soap could pick up broken glass!
I love Universal Studio and I want to tackle it alone….no kids
I’m doing this for my 38th birthday or at least something similar
I went to the one in Atlanta but I could only afford for the kids to do it….I was like this shat expensive
It’s homecoming time for a lot of colleges. I loved the recap on this one
I still don’t use my instagram stories my heart loves Snapchat way to much
I bought my marble slab from Crate and Barrel but this is much cheaper if you are a DIY person