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Go Shorty it’s ya birthday

We gonna party like it’s your birthday. Thank you to all of my birthday messages, texts, and calls. I feel so so loved. My birthday was yesterday and it was Amazing all weekend long. Dinner with friends on Saturday and Sunday was spent cheering on my daughter at her dance recital all day long. This birthday weekend was a simple one which I love. I am not one for all that extra stuff I like to keep it simple. There are three things that make my birthday special….here are my 3 things.

Go Shorty it’s ya birthday

Cake

On my kids birthday, I normally pick a theme and then I get a cake to match the theme. My daughter got to pick my theme this year and she picked wonder women. I have a cake lady who does my cake but she has been slipping lately….I need another cake lady (if you know of one that is good in Atlanta let me know) the cake was decent but it wasn’t her best. Maybe she was off because her sister passed away and that can be hard. I will give her another chance but I need someone else on standby. You need a cake for your birthday! If you are on a diet find something sweet you can eat just for you on your day.

A new outfit

I didn’t buy anything new but the jacket. Everything I had in my closet for over 2 years that I never wore lol. I don’t dress up a lot so I tend to buy things and keep the tags on them until I decide to dress. I wear sweats all the time so my stomach can have room to flop down I don’t need anything constricting my tummy. Every birthday buy yourself something even if its some underwear always treat yourself because it’s your day.

go shorty it's ya birthday

Good friends

My friends outdid themselves by taking me out to a fab spot that I have never been. We ate good and had a blast! You know who your true friends are when they show up for your birthday and go above and beyond to make your day as special as it can be.

My birthday was spent with my daughter at her dance recital. I couldn’t think of anything better to do on my day than see her perform.

Birthdays aren’t big to me because it’s the week before Christmas my mom always got me one item (normally jewelry) and the rest were saved for the holidays. My mom never went all out so I never had a big bash with parties and stuff. Everyone was busy around the holidays so no one came to my parties and I got used to it. Every year I do those three things above and I am happy with it! This year though I want to start 2 new traditions number one I want to do something new. That can be going to a new restaurant, going to a play, going somewhere I’ve never been, etc. The second tradition I want to start is giving something away. I know most people do it for the holidays but I want to start on my birthday give someone else a gift. This birthday I paid for someone to take a plane trip to see their sister whom they haven’t seen in over 3 years due to money being tight. She put it in the atmosphere and I granted her wish. Making others happy makes me happy and that is the key to having an awesome birthday. What do you do special for your birthday?

 

 

 

12 Comments

  • Schnelle Acevedo
    December 17, 2018 at 6:44 pm

    Happy Happy Birthday!! That cake is dope and I’m happy you had a good time!

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  • Tanay Michele
    December 17, 2018 at 11:45 pm

    That’s amazing that you gifted someone else a trip. We’ve started traveling for birthdays and it’s been fun.

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  • Leslie H
    December 18, 2018 at 2:02 am

    Looks like you had a great day. I love love love that Wonder Woman cake ! Daughters and dance recitals are something I am so familiar with ! Many many more years to you !

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  • Kenya
    December 18, 2018 at 7:16 pm

    Love the jacket and Happy belated Birthday. I bought myself kitchen stuff. I don’t know if that’s considered a good birthday present to yourself if it involves making stuff for others, but that’s what I did.

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  • Nadalie Bardo
    December 19, 2018 at 3:25 pm

    Happy Birthday! Wishing you all the best for the next year and hope it’s as amazingly awesome as your cake! I love your birthday tradition of giving something away – very thoughtful of you !

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  • Danielle
    December 19, 2018 at 4:19 pm

    Sounds like a fantastic birthday! I’m glad you enjoyed with your tribe. For birthdays we try to gift experiences because memories will last longer than material things

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  • Mimi Green
    December 19, 2018 at 4:20 pm

    Happy Belated Birthday! I’m glad you got to celebrate and that you were celebrated. I firmly believe in buying myself something for my birthday.

    I feel like holiday babies get the short end of the stick.

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  • Joyce Brewer
    December 20, 2018 at 3:28 pm

    Happy Belated Birthday. I agree with you on buying yourself something new for your birthday. Even new panties and a bra can elevate your mood.

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  • ShaBree Henry
    December 22, 2018 at 7:48 pm

    Happy Belated birthday! I’m like you. I like keeping it simple too. A good cake and spending time with family and friends will make my day special.

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  • Kasi
    December 24, 2018 at 1:45 am

    Happy Belated Birthday! I love your cake! Glad you enjoyed your day!

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  • Kim
    December 24, 2018 at 2:02 pm

    Happy belated birthday. It sounds like it was well spent. The older i get the more relaxed my birthdays become. Wishing you many more happy and healthy years.

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  • Kiwi
    December 24, 2018 at 9:59 pm

    I always said it sucked if your bday was around the holidays it shouldnt be like that but I can see how things can be hetic growing up and bday is around Christmas. I knew a beautful cake lady she just passed but I know a few more I can give you their info if you want as well black owned too!

    Happy Birthday Kita!

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