It's Life

The Journey of Losing someone

May 8, 2016

Happy Mothers Day to everyone! Today I will be brief. I sat down earlier this year to write a short ebook on how I cope with losing so many people. I have lost my grandmother, mother, aunt, uncle, and a husband. I have asked God to give me a break for a couple of years….preferably 20. It’s tough to lose the people you love and it’s even tougher to be alone. Currently I don’t have a lot of family left it’s just my 2 Aunts and an uncle. Everyone else has died out. I wanted to start a series for losing people but after some thought I decided to put it all in one small book. It’s a quick read but it gives you a glimpse of how I deal with so much lost. People say I am strong but the truth is I have God on my side. Without him I would be lost. He has blessed me even when everyone is in heaven with him. I use to be angry but that anger turned into gratefulness because I have so many angels watching over me. If you click on the picture it will take you to the pdf file of the book. Some words are spelled wrong, some forms of words are used wrong but it’s coming from my heart. Charge it to the game and I will correct as I go. (as of Jan 1, 2017 this book is no longer available as I want to correct a few things. Please stay tuned and sign up to my email for a revised version soon)

The journey of losing someone


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    Robin Masshole Mommy
    May 9, 2016 at 9:16 am

    Losing someone you love is the hardest thing to go through. My sister in law just lost her mom last week after a long battle to cancer.

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    Brenda Pace
    May 9, 2016 at 9:24 am

    Hey Kita,

    Life sure hasn’t been kind to you in some ways, however, you still continue to find the strength to push forward. I, like you, have little family left and can relate. My tjoughts are with you gf. Look forward to reading your journey.


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    valmg @ Mom Knows It All
    May 9, 2016 at 11:19 am

    Grief is a very personal thing to go through. It’s hard to see those you care for suffering.

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    May 9, 2016 at 11:43 am

    I can’t imagine how it feels to lose so many people ๐Ÿ™ But it’s life and everyone has their time on earth and unfortunately there’s nothing we can do about it.

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    Jenn @ EngineerMommy
    May 9, 2016 at 12:51 pm

    It’s so difficult losing someone we love. And we all deal with grief in our own unique way. I would definitely like to read a book that talks about how to deal with losing loved ones.

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    Heather P.
    May 9, 2016 at 2:06 pm

    “When you go through deep waters, I will be with you” – Isaiah 43:2

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    May 9, 2016 at 3:45 pm

    It is always so hard to lose someone you love. I have lost several family members and it never gets easier. You definitely have to rely on God when it happens.

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    May 9, 2016 at 4:26 pm

    I can’t eve start to imagine the pain you are going through with loosing so many people! I have lost a few people in my life, but nothing like this! Hold on to God he will give you the strength to go through this (even if you need to be mad for a while).

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    May 9, 2016 at 4:45 pm

    I can only imagine how difficult it can be to lose someone, especially someone so close to you. I hope that you share more about your journey as it will help others learn to survive and cope after losing a loved one!

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    May 9, 2016 at 11:10 pm

    I hate dealing with loss. It’s something I’ve dealt with so much in my life, I just don’t wish it upon anyone even though its part of life. It’s tough.

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    May 10, 2016 at 12:02 am

    Unfortunately I am no stranger to loss. It is something we all go through and cope with differently.

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    May 10, 2016 at 1:17 am

    Kita, I think your e-book will be welcomed by so many. Unfortunately death affects everyone ๐Ÿ™ I am so sorry you have had to go through so much, but you can use your experiences and feelings to help others!

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    Liz Mays
    May 10, 2016 at 11:27 am

    That’s really wonderful that you’re sharing that with other people. Grief is such a hard thing to go through, and it’s worse because it can’t be rushed. It’s going to happen as it happens.

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    Vidya Sudarsan
    May 10, 2016 at 6:47 pm

    Losing someone you love is very hard to cope up with. Death is not easy to accept and the thought that this person is gone forever takes a very long time to adjust and maybe one really can’t get used to this fact. I think your e-book will benefit because all of us will eventually have to go thru this in life.

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    Stephanie Pass
    May 10, 2016 at 10:01 pm

    I dread the though of when my husband and I get old and which one of us is going to die first. I can’t imagine life without him.

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    Bites for Foodies
    May 11, 2016 at 12:38 am

    I lose my grandmother last year and she was actually the first person very close to me who passed away. Words can’t describe how difficult grieving over someone is.

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    Bonnie @wemake7
    May 11, 2016 at 1:13 am

    I am so sorry to hear about so many losses you have encountered. I am glad that you have God on your side and your spiritual.

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    Diana Mathieson
    May 11, 2016 at 7:03 am

    HI there,
    thanks for the book, it is really true, I know that God needed my son back in 2005 he was 22 years old. At the time the only person I had known that had died was my Grandmother and she was 90. I kind of read your book fast, will read it again but I found really good and very emotional. Life is hard, and we know that God has his reasons . Sorry about your losses and your children’s losses as well.

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    Tiffany Hathorn
    May 12, 2016 at 8:25 am

    Losing a loved one is definitely a tough and transformative experience. Just as someone’s presence can change your life – so can their absence.

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    May 16, 2016 at 1:52 pm

    Kita- Thanks for sharing your story of loss because for me it is still real raw the loss of my sister even though it has been a year. I did download the ebook because when I can read it without having to look through my tears I will. I really enjoy following you and learning from you. Take care and Thanks. Damita

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